Parenting is easy, or the Golden Rules for Parents
The participants of our trainings asked us to collect the main thing that smart parents should remember and know. We smiled and wrote. If you are not only smart, but also with a sense of humor, you should like these rules.
First, the main thing:
It’s easy to raise children if you are smart, and three or more children. It is always more difficult to raise two or one children. Make the right decisions!
Children must be dealt with by the children themselves. The system is simple: any junior obeys any senior. Each senior is fully and always responsible for any junior. All!
Our children do not need childhood, we teach them to grow up.
All the best for adults. Only in this case, children have an interest to grow up!
The main task of parents is to be as demanding on children as possible. Demand from the children all that they can accomplish. Well, a little more. Believe in your children!
Your children are yours when they obey you. If they do not listen to you, but friends, watch TV, when you talk to them and think that they can live without you, but they can’t live without a tablet – these are not your children. Teach your children to obey!
Parenting is an easy thing. Do not scold, do not criticize, do not blame: teach your child to do the right thing, turn them into skills, and then into good habits!
Treat the child as an adult, respect the child. What if he is already smart ?!
Accustom your children and employees to work, let them work like bobiks. Well, set an example! You are the Chief Bobik !!! the details
And now in the details:
Positive in everything: in words, thoughts and intonations. We start the day with positive, end the day with positive. Joy in the family begins with you!
In a healthy body healthy mind. Sleep, douche, exercise, right evening, peppy morning. More physical activity!
If you, mom or dad, have an unfortunate face, you are not right (not right). Everything is always good with us: we have good children, and we are good parents.
“Our children are smart, strong and beautiful!” – our duty is to remind them, their task is to remember.
No matter how wonderful our children may be, we will always demand even more from them. To whom more is given, more is required.
If we are unhappy with the children, we ourselves are to blame. But the children do not have to say this.
Do not punish the child for mistakes, do not praise him for good luck – this is not his merit. You are responsible for the development and success of your child, and the task of your child is to obey you. He obeys you – praise. Not obeying – you have the right to punish. In a good family, children are only praised and not punished!
A parent must be in two states: either you are doing well or you are giving orders.
Based on the fact that the child is not evil and not harmful, he simply does not know what to do. Do not be offended, do not suffer and do not be angry – teach and demand.
Do not be afraid to show strength when the child wants to test you for strength. A child never gets angry with a wall when he hits it and it bangs it. Be the wall!
We use negativity and categorization as a military arsenal: only in extreme cases, when peaceful means have been exhausted.
If in response to demands the child pouted and leaves contact, add one more requirement: do not pout and communicate normally. Do not give up!
Suffering without parental permission is impossible. Or, with parental permission, do it with a cheerful face!
Do not do too much for the child that he can do on his own.
Children should not help parents – let the children do everything themselves.
If you don’t know how to act, remember how you behave in business. Thinking what decision to make in relation to the child, look at him as your future employee – the one who in the future will take the place of the head of the company!
Apply the rules of business to parenting and family relationships, and apply the rules of parenting in business, educating your employees.
We are not harmful, we are caring!